The Primary Prevention of Child Sexual Abuse
Stopping child sexual abuse... before it can happen.


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The Potential Abusers: People At-Risk For Sexually Abusing Children

Potential abusers are a population that are typically unaddressed in most conversations about child sexual abuse, though not without reason. This lack of information is largely due to the nature of this group of people: Those who are at-risk for abusing a child, and those who have never been caught.


Researchers have proposed systems and "psychological barriers" that potential abusers must cross before an instance of sexual abuse happens, but these systems are often complicated and difficult to simplify for the average person. When this site uses the term "potential abuser," it is referring to people who may be in this process and in need of mental health interventions.


It should be noted that outing and publicly labeling these people is not necessarily helpful, may be illegal, and is against the terms of use on this site.


Part of the reason this site and its partner blog exist is to address one common theme found among child sexual offenders who have completed treatment programs: They wish they knew help was available before they hurt a child. If potential abusers can be reached before they hurt a child, if their psychological needs can be met in a healthy way that does not victimize children, then and only then can we start to put a stop to child sexual abuse. Potential abusers is a concept that is newly emerging in prevention and has only begun to be studied, but the existence of potential abusers is well-established by researchers and psychologists.

David Finkelhor's Four Preconditions Model of Child Sexual Abuse: Abuse Takes Time To Happen

Child sexual abuse is not something that happens overnight, it is typically the result of lots of time where circumstances and minor choices combine to one event or multiple events: Sexually abusing a child. David Finkelhor, a sociologist and expert in crimes against juveniles, came up with a book, Child Sexual Abuse: New Theory & Research, which was published in 1984. This book contained Finkelhor's Four Preconditions Model of Child Sexual Abuse, which proposes four things must happen before abuse occurs. These four things are:

  1. Motivation: The perpetrator must have a reason.
  2. Internal Inhibitions: The perpetrator must overcome internal barriers, or inhibitions, to abusing a child.
  3. External Inhibitions: The perpetrator must overcome external barriers, or inhibitions, to abusing a child.
  4. Child's Resistance: The perpetrator must overcome the child's resistance to being sexual (overcoming this resistance is commonly called grooming today).

While many attempts have been made at restating Finkelhor's model, the fact remains that it is extremely atypical for someone to sexually abuse a child without overcoming these four areas. Abuse is rarely spontaneous and random, and because there are inhibitions to sexually abusing a child, there is time to stop the abuse before it happens by intervening before the barriers to sexually abusing a child are overcome.

They Are Us

One of the most difficult barrier for most people to overcome is the idea that people who sexually abuse children are human, just like you and me, and even human beings they might know. The facts say that they are people we trust and even like or love as family members, neighbors, or people who work with our children. They have needs and emotions that most can understand and even relate to, even if many of us handle these needs and emotions without hurting a child. One of the main initiatives that this site advocates is being aware of behavioral signs that someone might be at-risk for sexually abusing a child (a potential abuser) and having conversations with them so that they can receive the appropriate mental health help. 


If people who may be at-risk for sexually abusing a child are getting help managing their needs and emotions, before a child is sexually abused, then primary and secondary prevention is at work. The best situation is where an at-risk person learns to manage their risk before a child is hurt, rather than waiting until after a child becomes a victim to do anything about sexual abuse.